Olivia Joseph: So I wanted to thank you, Patricia, for taking the time to be here with me today to talk about One Block, Many Stories, that is a segment that is a part of Unfolding, where we talk about the variety of stories that exist behind quilt pattern blocks, and so once again thank you for being here today with me.
Patricia Kelly: Thank you for inviting me.
OJ: Of course. Okay, so I wanted to start by getting a sense for your quilting journey and how you really got into quilting. How long ago did you begin quilting?
PK: I think I started about 20 years ago, but I didn't take it seriously until about ten years ago.
OJ: What would you say made you take it seriously?
PK: Probably about the time I joined the quilt guild. I joined about 10 years ago. Until then I was playing around.
OJ: *laughs* Love it. What made you interested to even start quilting in the first place?
PK: Well, about 20 years ago, I ran into one of my friends who had been at school with me in high school and junior high, and she told me she had started a quilt class. And so I joined the class really to be with other people that were sewing, because I started sewing when I was 12. And at that time, women had to–well, we were girls–we had to be in home-ec. Either you had to take sewing or cooking, and I took sewing, and my sisters and I, we all would sew and my aunt just for the fun of it.
And then when I got into high school, I started sewing with a group of girls, and we would sit around, plan our dates, plan what we're going to wear to the dances, to concerts, and it was a lot of fun. So that's why I started to enter the quilting class, mainly just to sit and talk to other people. I didn't think I was really going to quilt.
My grandmother was a good seamstress. She could sew, but we didn't have a real quilting background in our family that I knew of. I learned more about quilting when I joined the guild, and I heard a lot about the different quilting backgrounds. One thing was really surprising to me is how many men, and some of the members of the guild, how many men were actually quilting in their family. I had never heard that before.
OJ: Yeah, I’ll say for me too. Can you tell us a little bit more about that guild and how you got into the guild or interested in joining the guild in the first place?
PK: Well, our guild is the only predominantly African-American guild in San Diego County. We’re known for our large quilts, especially queen size, king size, and taking traditional patterns and altering them more with bright colors, African fabric, altering it more. So we'll take its traditional pattern and make it more colorful.
We have a show at least every February, and now we added one in June, so we can introduce quilting to the public.
And how I joined the guild was because unfortunately, my teacher had passed away, so the class was over. So she had been trying to get me to join the guild, but I was intimidated, because I had no idea what a guild was, first of all, and I knew these women were going to be very advanced quilters, and so I was intimidated to join, but I wanted, once again, to be with a group of women that were sewing, so that's why I end up joining, and I'm so glad I did I've learned so much.
OJ: How did you end up becoming the president of that guild?
PK: Actually it was after one of the shows. I was telling them different things I had heard guests say when they came to our show and they said, “You should be president,” and I thought, ‘What?’ Because I was not really a quilter, in my eyes. So that's how I end up becoming president, and I've been president ever since, because they keep saying, “You're doing a great job.” And I said, “Don't the bylaws say I should be out of here by now?” And they're saying, “We're voting you back in!” So that's how I became president.
OJ: I love that.
PK: So I started saying, we need to let other people and other communities know what we're doing, and that was how I started. And like once again, I don't feel like I was really doing that much quilting. I would think I was doing more promotion than quilting.
OJ: Would you say there was any particular quilter at that time that you found inspiring to you as you were continuing to go down your quilting journey?
PK: I think the first quilt that probably inspired me was the Underground Railroad quilt, and I never thought I was going to make one. The main reason is because to make that quilt, you have to follow a pattern, and I was always a rebel–my poor teacher. I would always just do what I wanted to do, so my blocks, a lot of times, weren’t matching, and to do an Underground Railroad quilt, you have to stick to the pattern.
Some people have done some variations now, but if you want to make an original one, you have to stick to the pattern. That was my first experience with it. It took a while for me to actually attack it, because I was still intimidated by doing it.
OJ: Was there anything that you think helped you feel a little less intimidated or feel like, ‘Oh, I could I could do this’?
PK: I still do feel like, because I know there are so many quilters that are way better than I am, even in our guild, but everyone is so accepting, even in other guilds. If you go to another guild, they are really excited about seeing your work. They're always encouraging. And in our guild, for example, they won't say anything negative, but if you ask for suggestions and say, “What could I have done to make this better?” They'll say, “Well, what about this?” No one ever looks at your work and says, “This is terrible.” They always are encouraging and excited, even like we have a person that just joined. She made her first quilt, and when she held it up, everyone cheered. So it was like I said, everyone's really encouraging in the guild.
OJ: I really love that. I think, one memory I have, when you invited me to one of your guild’s quilt shows, was actually going into the space, and just like you were saying now, everybody was so inviting and they were talking about their own personal stories. I feel like you could really feel the warmth and all the love that exists in that space. So yeah, all to say is, I completely understand that sentiment. I completely agree with what you say about that.
PK: But I think it's cultural too, because when somebody comes to your house, you're not going to sit there when somebody walks in and ignore them. But I feel like when they come to the show, it's like they're coming to our house. So everyone greets them. If you go up and talk to somebody or if somebody has a question about a quilt, I'll say, “Oh, that's so-and-so’s quilt.” And they'll run over and say, “Well, this is what I did.” They'll start talking.
OJ: Do you think that’s something particular to Black guilds?
PK: I'm told that it's not, because we did not know that it was not until someone said something about, “I'm surprised about how friendly the members were.” And then some people took it as an insult, and we were like, “What are they talking about?” And then we finally realized that sometimes you go to a show and people, no one ever speaks to you. No one approaches you. No one talks to you, and we were surprised, because we always have done that. So we didn't think it was unusual.
OJ: Growing up also around a lot of African and Black folk at home, it's like always homey. It's so warm. Everyone wants to know what you're doing. You're just constantly being asked questions, and so I think that's kind of why I asked that question—to gauge that and also to help listeners potentially understand the feeling, I think, really just the feel and the atmosphere of some guilds.
PK: Well, some people are afraid to come to our shows until they come, and then they're like, “Oh, that wasn't scary. I was welcomed in. I don't have to be Black to come to this show.” And they’re really surprised a lot of times.
OJ: Do you think identity—maybe as well as tradition or maybe the exploration of your identity—do you think that's something that you incorporate into your practice?
PK: I think I'm doing that more and more. I do what I consider protest quilts sometimes, African themed quilts, African-American themed, but then I like to also do quirky things that are kind of funny, somebody will look at and they'll start laughing. Sometimes they're religious, sometimes you know, evoke emotion, especially with panels, which is a whole different area of what we want to go into. So I try to vary it.
I don't want to just be seen as a person that's fighting and protesting, but sometimes you want to look at it and make people smile.
OJ: For me, it's been personally interesting to see the variety of ways that these textiles can be used. I think it's amazing the stories that can be tied to the way that they're used—if it's for utilitarian purposes, maybe you have stories around the making of it, and it is that familial feeling. With the art quilts, maybe you're diving into things that inspire you, and with the protest quilts, I think that sometimes speaks to things happening in society or even in your own experience.